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The Right to Sex

By Amia Srinivasan


Sex is a thing we have and a thing we do — private act, public meaning, personal preference shaped by forces far beyond the personal. In The Right to Sex, Amia Srinivasan moves beyond the language of consent and refusal to ask harder questions: about desire and power, gender and class, race and the ethics of pleasure. Searching, original, and unafraid of its own contradictions, this is a landmark work of feminist philosophy — shortlisted for the Orwell Prize 2022 — that takes sex seriously as a political phenomenon, and imagines what a more honest reckoning with it might look like.

Excerpt: The Right to Sex

Debates echo: online call-outs, formal sanctions, or the chasm of altered minds? A student's gaze, a teacher's power—desire, knowledge, and boundaries blur

(Chapter – Conspiracy against Men)

I do not mean to overstate the issue. More than enough men have been called out online for bad or even criminal behaviour without serious repercussion. Many more, presumably, are never called out at all. Of the seventeen men accused of sexual violence by multiple anonymous women on the Shitty Media Men list, only a handful appear to have faced formal professional sanctions, forced to resign from their jobs or banned from contributing to particular publications. None are in hiding. Apparently one of them has had a standing lunch date with Woody Allen, during which they discussed their respective victimisation by feminists. Harvey Weinstein was sentenced to twenty-three years in prison, a cause for rejoicing on feminist Twitter, yet it had taken a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalistic investigation, a viral social movement, more than a hundred women coming forward and six of them taking the stand, and at the end of it all Weinstein was convicted on just two counts: rape in the third degree and criminal sexual assault in the first.

And yet, if the aim is not merely to punish male sexual domination but to end it, feminism must address questions that many feminists would rather avoid: whether a carceral approach that systemically harms poor people and people of colour can serve sexual justice; whether the notion of due process – and perhaps too the presumption of innocence – should apply to social media and public accusations; whether punishment produces social change. What does it really take to alter the mind of patriarchy?

(Chapter – Of Not Sleeping With Your Students)

It is hard to read someone’s mind on the basis of one letter. Perhaps the student simply admires and wants to be like Kincaid. Or maybe she doesn’t know what she wants: to be like Kincaid, or to have Kincaid. Or she wants both, and takes having Kincaid as a means to, or a sign of, being like him. Or she believes that she can’t ever be like Kincaid, and so longs, as a second best, to have him instead. Perhaps, even, she just wants to have sex with Kincaid, and all the talk of poetry is just an attempt at seduction. Still, whichever of these possibilities is right, it may well be possible for Kincaid to get his student consensually to have sex with him. Where a student’s desire is inchoate – Do I want to be like him, or to have him? – it is all too easy for the teacher to steer it in the second direction. Likewise when the student (wrongly) thinks that sleeping with her teacher is a means to becoming like her teacher, or a sign that she is like him already (He wants me so I must be brilliant). Even where it is clear that the student’s desire is to be like the teacher, it’s not hard for a teacher to convince the student that her desire is really for him, or that sleeping with him is a way to become like him. (What better way to understand the ‘feelings’ of the Romantic poets than to experience those feelings yourself?)

Whatever may be in the student’s mind, it is surely the case that Kincaid’s focus, as a teacher, should be on directing his student’s desire away from himself, and towards its proper object: her epistemic empowerment. If this is what the student wants already, then all Kincaid has to do is exercise some restraint, and not sexualise what is a sincere expression of her desire to learn. If the student is ambivalent or confused in her desires, Kincaid must go a step further and draw boundaries, redirecting the student’s desires in the proper direction. Freud thinks that in psychoanalysis this should be done explicitly, by telling the patient that she is experiencing transference. In the pedagogical context, taking that approach would be deeply awkward. (For all the intimacy of the teacher–student relationship, teachers aren’t supposed to be reading their students’ hearts, even if we can.) But there are subtler ways to redirect a student’s energies, quiet ways of stepping back, drawing attention away from oneself and towards an idea, a text, a way of seeing. By failing even to try to do this, Kincaid fails to be what his student is praising him for being: a good teacher.

Excerpted with permission from The Right to Sex by Amia Srinivasan published by Bloomsbury Publishing 2022.

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Review: The Right to Sex

Srinivasan problematizes sexual liberation, asserting that desire, consent, and justice are deeply entangled with oppressive systems, requiring a radical re-imagining of feminist politics.

In her 2021 publication, The Right to Sex, Amia Srinivasan discusses feminism in the 21st century. This particular collection of six essays address what “many men and women already know”(Srinivasan xvii). Her essays claim to draw on an older feminist tradition. According to Srinivasan, this feminist tradition was “unafraid to think of sex as a political phenomenon.”(Srinivasan xv) She reflects on the feminist tradition that women such as Simone de Beauvoir, Alexandra Kollontai, Bell Hooks, Audre Lorde, Catherine MacKinnon, and Adrienne Rich advocated.

These six essays shed light on the politics and ethics of sex and offer hope for a better future. Srinivasan begins by explaining the difference between sex, which is assigned at birth, and sex as a physical act. She explains how sex, a physical act, is closely linked to an agency as well as oppression. Through her writing, she aims to shed light on freedom of sex, especially for women. She proposes the idea that sex as a natural phenomenon is a misconception; rather, it has been shaped by patriarchy. Srinivasan attempts to see the world through contemporary feminist concerns, with perfect examples of bold, modern pieces of work which aim to tackle the ongoing issues in the most effective ways possible.

In the first essay titled The Conspiracy Against Men she speaks about the ‘hysteria’(Srinivasan 1) of fake rape allegations and the harm that malicious women draw against innocent men who then get falsely accused. Srinivasan puts forward the idea that the actual source of this hysteria is not rooted in statistical reality but in the fear of men that they will lose their right to sex. She acknowledges the fact that some men do get falsely accused of rape, but such cases are rare and far less than the cases in which actual rape takes place, and no justice is served, especially against women. Srinivasan speaks about how racism impacts false rape accusations. She points out how these accusations have been weaponised to target marginalised men, particularly black men, which in turn maintains their oppression through legal institutions.

Then, she interrogates the #Metoo movement and how it becomes essential in gaining justice for the victims of sexual crimes and draws attention to how race, class, and social status shape both the believed and accused, reminding readers that the act of institutional reform can end up perpetuating the same social inequalities it was meant to address, if these factors go unexamined. Srinivasan breaks down simplistic narratives about sexual violence and false accusations, arguing for a feminist politics that is conscious of intersectionality and the dangers of carceral feminism while also rejecting the notion that there is a widespread controversy against men. Her essay particularly stands out as it speaks volumes for the contemporary feminist concerns and exposes the sources of injustice that are often overlooked or deliberately ignored.

In the second essay of her book, titled Talking to My Students about Porn, she begins by speaking about the porn wars in the 1970s and 1980s, and about the debate between anti-porn feminists and pro-porn feminists. The pro-porn feminists saw an opportunity for liberation and sexual freedom, whereas the anti-porn feminists saw porn as a primary tool of patriarchal oppression and believed that pornography is directly linked to sexual violence in the real world. This idea was put forward through slogans like “Porn is theory, Rape is practice.”

She speaks about the classroom discussions she had with her students about pornography and acknowledges that porn often reinforces misogynistic and homogenised tropes. Her discussions with the students reveal that feminist and queer porn do offer an alternative, but it is often not accessible to people because of socio-economic barriers, while also highlighting the fact that pornography of this kind often gets banned, rather than the mainstream stereotyped pornography that is governed by patriarchy. She links it to Laura Mulvey’s essay Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema (1975) and how women are often depicted as the object of desire and men as the ones who desire them.

Mainstream pornography reinforces the fact that patriarchal structures make the world believe that women are merely objects of desire and do not possess a desire of their own. Srinivasan does not offer a simple or definitive solution; instead, she approaches educators and students to look at porn critically, treating it as a cultural text that deserves the same scrutiny as literature or media. Her essay provides us with tools to critically engage and think about pornography and sexual politics.

Moving forward to her third essay, which is also where the book gets its title from, The Right to Sex, Srinivasan critically examines the ethical, political, and social dimensions of sexual desire, consent, and sexual entitlement within contemporary feminism. She argues that consent alone is not enough to ensure an ethical sexual encounter, and power dynamics such as age, race, and gender are essential in understanding true agency in sexual relationships. She urges the readers to not just acknowledge the presence of consent but the driving forces behind it.

She also addresses sexual hierarchy, which is one of the major themes of the book. It sheds light upon how sexual desirability confers social status and is determined by racialised, gendered, and ableist norms. She urges the readers to think about the broader ideas of the world, which are wrapped around systematic inequalities such as capitalism, racism, and patriarchy, and how they are linked to

sexual desire and fulfillment. Srinivasan emphasises intersectionality, showing how sexual justice must centre marginalised experiences and dismantle systems that perpetuate violence and discrimination. Her vision of sexual justice includes not only the right to consensual pleasure but also the challenge to existing social hierarchies and the transformation of desire itself. This essay provokes readers to reconsider what sexual liberation looks like, refuses easy answers, and calls for a deeper ethical inquiry, social transformation, and justice at the intersection of desire, consent, and power.

In the next essay of the book, Coda: The Politics of Desire, which is an addendum to her previous essay, Srinivasan points out that desire is intricately shaped by socio-political aspects of the world. She suggests that desire is never completely personal or ‘natural’ as it is considered, but is driven by systems of oppression, including racism, patriarchy, ableism, and classism. She explores how individuals unconsciously internalise social hierarchies of ‘desirability,’ such that desires reflect the existing power structures instead of challenging them.

One of the key arguments of this essay is to treat sexual preferences as fixed or ‘pre-political’ to give a free pass to discrimination and exclusion. The coda ultimately debates whether the transformation of desire should be a moralistic, disciplinary project or an emancipatory one. This part of the essay challenges the readers to rethink their desires, both acknowledging their roots in oppressive systems and imagining the possibility of freeing desire from the grip of the structures that rule our minds, pushing for political transformation at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and justice.

Further, Srinivasan, in her fifth essay of the book, speaks about the ethics, power dynamics, and social consequences of sexual and romantic encounters between professors and students, which go beyond the typical notion of consent. In On Not Sleeping with Your Students, Srinivasan first acknowledges the familiar case against professor-student relationships. She throws light upon the inherent power difference and the risk of coercion, especially in the context of grades and career advancement. However, her central argument is rooted in the ethics of teaching itself. She contends that such relationships are a pedagogical failure because a teacher’s core responsibility is to nurture the student’s desire for knowledge and intellectual growth, not redirect that desire toward themselves as an object of romantic or sexual longing.

By drawing Freud’s theory of transference, she argues that teachers, like therapists, are responsible for not exploiting this transference for personal gratification, and also highlights how these relationships are often gendered, typically involving male professors and female students, raising broader concerns about patriarchy and societal expectations. She also points out that during the rise of genuine romantic feelings, consent cannot be taken at its face value as the student may feel a pressure to say ‘yes’ because of the power dynamic and may be afraid to say ‘no’ since the consequences would have taken a toll on their confidence. In this essay, Srinivasan calls for universities to rethink their policies and expectations from the faculty, emphasising that a truly ethical teacher-student relationship should put students growth first and protect them against both systemic and personal forms of exploitation, which mostly affect women.

In the final essay of the book, Sex, Carceralism, Capitalism, Srinivasan critiques how feminist movements, government policy, and capitalist forces intersect and shape sexual politics, often with unintended consequences for the most marginalized. She discusses “carceral feminism” (Srinivasan 132) as an approach to addressing sexual violence and misogyny that heavily depends on stronger laws, increased policing, and harsher punishments. She argues that this strategy often ends up disproportionately harming working-class women, racialised communities, and sex workers by reinforcing state violence and social exclusion, even though it intends to protect them. The essay also interrogates the societal focus on consent as the measure of moral sex, suggesting that this parallels capitalist ideas about ‘free exchange’, where the conditions that produce sexual choices and desires are ignored. Srinivasan warns the readers that consent-based frameworks often overlook how class, race, and other hierarchies shape “choices,” justifying inequality in sexual and economic domains. Furthermore, she also points out how mainstream porn often propagates patriarchal sexual fantasies, root problems in desire and sexual power, and how legal battles often fail to disrupt capitalist and patriarchal logic. Her final essay is a plea to rethink how feminism, law, and capitalism interact to produce and police sexual subjectivity. She insists on making new paths toward liberation, solidarity, and lasting justice for all.

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